Think about them once.


How are you?

Now you would say ‘I am fine’ right? But deep down you know you are not fine, you are always going through so many problems, it’s not like good thing don’t happen in your life but problem also never leaves you right? But after everything when things don’t go right we think, there should be someone, just someone to tell us everything will be fine, someone to say everything is okay don’t you worry, someone who stay beside us and understand our feelings even if he or she doesn’t say anything.

But I strongly want to ask you one question.

Have you ever done the same which you expect from others?Have you ever just for a minute stopped thinking about your own problems or struggles to understand about that one person who says he or she is fine but isn’t? Do you ever try to understand them? Do you ever try to help others when you know you will not get benefitted by it.

Yes I know you are going through problems, I know there are lot of struggles in your life, I know that you are not okay even though you say so but you are not. Yes I know. But please just for a minute just put your stuffs aside and think about the one who is there in front of you and is saying he or she is fine but isn’t, just go to them once and say you are there for them, tell the same thing which you want to listen, tell him that everything is fine and everything will be fine, just give him a tight hug and let him know they are not alone and believe me when you will see that smile on their face because of you, you will feel really special, you will have a smile on your face as well.

I am not able to understand what’s going on in this world, everyone has problems, everyone wants someone to be with them, but no one tries to just understand others and do the same thing with themselves.

why are we not there for each other, why can’t we forget about ourselves for some time, why can’t we just think about others feeling for sometime.

Just imagine how this world would be if we all will be there for each other, forgetting our own problems for sometimes.

Yes I know that you have a lot of struggles in your life but please value problems and feelings of others as well.

Just put this in your head that happiness and sadness of others is as much important as your own and make this world a little more happier.

Thanks for reading guys 🙂

Keep smiling and be motivated.

Hope to see you soon.

17 Comments Add yours

  1. Ravisingh says:

    Good analysis of human behavior and reactions! Loved it,Fatma!

    Liked by 2 people

  2. wit chat says:

    Nice 😊

    Liked by 2 people

      1. wit chat says:

        Welcome Fatima

        Liked by 1 person

  3. Ravisingh says:

    Happy 2020 Fatma!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. fatma zohra says:

      Hey, it’s sad that i saw this comment when actually 2020 is not going good.

      Liked by 1 person

    2. Ravisingh says:

      Hey Fatma,so it is more important to see it as happy 2020.
      Welcome back after a long time.

      Liked by 1 person

      1. fatma zohra says:

        Yes that’s right. 🙂
        Thank you so much! By the way why am I not able to see your posts?

        Liked by 1 person

      2. Ravisingh says:

        go to my website and tell me the problem,if any.

        Liked by 1 person

      3. fatma zohra says:

        I am sorry I am not able to find, it says site is no longer available


  4. AnuRag says:

    Very nice !!

    Liked by 1 person

      1. AnuRag says:

        Most welcome fatma 🙂


  5. Katherine says:

    Beautifully written.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. fatma zohra says:

      Thank you so much!


  6. Mohit Thakur says:

    Very insightful. I, too believe that to the question ” how are you ?” , everyone replies in the same way irrespective of whether they are feeling good or not. It is through further communication that we really find out how they really are feeling.


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